Do you like to be in control? I do. Don’t get me wrong, I love surprises (as long as I don’t know they’re coming) but I also like to know what to expect from my day and I like to have plenty of say in what happens during it. I like to be able to do something about the things that worry me. I’m definitely not the sort of person who can put worries to one side just because there’s absolutely nothing I can do at that point in time to influence them. My husband finds that bizarre. He’s the opposite – if he can’t change something at a given moment, then he simply puts it out of his mind until he can change it.
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